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There is only one rule for writing memoir: You have to be honest. There are no templates, no blueprints, no other instructions. Unfortunately, this doesn't make it any easier. Here we will discuss with each other the difficult but exhilarating process of writing memoir—the worries we have, the obstacles we face, both real and imagined, and the pleasures of digging deep to find the story. There will be new assignments every month to jog memories loose, and to help banish self-consciousness, the scourge of all writers. I hope we will discover that the process of writing memoir is as valuable and important as the finished thing because of what we learn along the way. I hope we will share our concerns and our work with each other.
I will jump in and out of the discussions at least once a month. Given my limited availability online, I'm not always able to respond to personal messages. But I look forward to interacting with you all in this creative workshop of ours. Start writing.
We’ve been writing a lot about family lately,
which is certainly a subject worthy of exploration, but lest we find
ourselves stuck in a rut, I’m going to prompt you this month
into a new direction.
I remember my first job.While still in high school, I talked my way into a weekend
slot at a car wash, back when minimum wage was close to one
dollar.This was one of those car
washes where the driver exited the car before it was pulled through
a tunnel by a chain, and then the driver, and whatever happy kids
came along, could watch through a long glass window as the car
travelled down the line.The car was
washed, wiped, buffed, sprayed, scrubbed, bristled, and blow-dried,
mainly by machine, but a few rough-edged older men stayed inside the
tunnel and did some of the more difficult hand-work themselves.
When the cars came out of the tunnel, two guys with
cotton towels finished drying the chassis, while another fellow
jumped inside and cleaned the dashboard and inside window.Then this final fellow held open the door
and said to the driver, “Thank you for coming to Jim
Taylor’s Car Wash. Have a great day.”
Probably because I was the only worker with a
respectable haircut and clean trousers, the owner put me in charge
of the final step.
Much to my surprise and delight, however, every third
customer or so would thrust some money into my hand as he entered
the car.Usually it was a shiny
quarter.Sometimes two.At the end of the shift, I may have made an
extra eight to ten bucks, and that seemed grand.I must really open a door well, I thought
to myself, riding my Schwinn back home.
A few weeks went by until the other workers caught
on.These were tips, and in all
fairness, I should have been sharing them with everyone, especially
the rough guys who did the hard work in back.The owner fired me on the spot, once the guys complained,
which was probably the only reason I didn’t get the living
daylights beaten out of me.
It all seems so stupid now, especially my never
questioning why I was going home with my pockets sagging with
quarters. Youth can be a powerful hallucinogen.
So, what was your very first job?
Here are a few prompts to get you started:
What was your very first job, outside of your own
home? What frightened you most about this new environment,
or what amused you?
What was your earliest lesson about work and
fairness?