Los Amigos Call for Action With Pancakes, Passion, and Patience
By: Jennifer Delson | Source: AARP Segunda Juventud | October, 2009
To create a group like Los Amigos—
- Meet regularly at a convenient place and time.
- Start with an easy goal, such as organizing one event.
- Bring in people who want to see change in their community.Let one person consistently serve as a moderator.
- Have the moderator and participants treat all attendees with respect.
- Take the time to learn more about attendees than just their names, so they feel that they belong to a group that cares about them.
- Have the moderator accept—though not necessary agree with—all viewpoints.Study issues in depth.Invite community stakeholders to meetings.
- Establish communication with elected officials.Encourage the group to be passionate about issues while maintaining a respectful, tempered stance, so that it can continue to work with the community on other concerns.
- Follow the Los Amigos credo: "If you plead it, you lead it."
- That means the participant who suggests an action leads the effort and engages the group.
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Los Amigos have also taken on controversial issues. In 2007 it successfully led a recall effort against a local school-board member whose opinions were considered racist. They have sparred with a county sheriff who trained deputies to enforce immigration law, spurred people to run for city council, and considered getting measures on local ballots.
Yet its composition remains loose, with no formal board of directors, dues, budget, or bank account. David was propelled into community service by his observations of workplace discrimination in the 1970s: Latinos getting passed over for promotions, seldom rising to supervisory and management positions, and being the last hired and first laid-off. The possibility that discrimination still exists, he says, helps keep the group honest and united.
Perhaps what most shapes the culture of Los Amigos is the lengthy "Yo Yo" portion of the meetings. David asks attendees to talk about themselves, their "yo." How did they meet their spouses? Why did they pick their careers? He follows up by congratulating them on their successes."We want them to get a serene sense of belonging," David explains. "We want them to feel like they have [dropped] an anchor here."
The meetings always end with attendees forming a circle and holding hands. Some “throw something in the middle,” David says, such as prayers for a sick member or neighbor.
At a recent meeting, Araceli Cazales, 52, accompanied by Rodolfo her husband of 29 years, threw in a prayer for everyone who is a part of Los Amigos: "They always have open hands and hearts. As a Latino, this is the respect you always look for. Amin David goes above and beyond. He works to encourage us all, especially young people, who are our future."




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