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A durable power of attorney (DPOA) is one of the most important tools in a caregiver’s toolbox. A DPOA is a legal document that nominates a person (called an “agent”) to help you with your finances if you become sick and can’t handle your own affairs. The majority of caregivers handle some financial coordination for a friend or loved one — like paying bills from their care recipient’s accounts, managing investments or handling insurance claims. And without a power of attorney (POA), it can be a frustrating and almost impossible task.
I was a sudden caregiver for my mom. She did not have a POA prepared. She spent weeks in the hospital and rehab after brain surgery and it was maddening for me to do even the simplest tasks, like paying her utility bill that became overdue while she was hospitalized. Thankfully, she recovered enough to sign a POA when she was of sound mind. If not, I would have had to go through the expensive and time-consuming process of becoming her court-appointed guardian. This would have been extremely difficult, because I couldn’t afford to pay for her expenses and bills out of pocket; it was necessary for me to have access to her funds to keep her bills up to date.
If your caregiver is going to someday access your finances, they’ll either need a POA or a court order that gives them that right. But sometimes, when a caregiver presents a POA to a financial institution, such as a bank, the employees decline to accept it and turn the caregiver away. Banks are on high alert for elder financial exploitation and scams; if there is a question about the validity of the POA, they may deny its use. The reasons for a bank rejecting a POA vary, but here are some I’ve heard:
- The POA doesn’t meet the state’s requirements for language or how it’s signed.
- The POA is extremely old.
- The POA is not durable.
- The bank wants the person who signed the POA or the agent or both to appear in person at the bank to use the document.
- The bank wants the account holder to use the bank’s own POA form.
- The bank wants additional documentation from the agent.
It can be exceedingly frustrating for a bank to disregard a POA, especially if they are wrongfully rejecting it.
Understand why your power of attorney was denied
First, ask the bank for the reason they’re not accepting the POA in writing and then look up the law in your state. There may be procedures and time frames that a bank must follow when it decides to reject a POA. Learn what the bank is required to do in these circumstances.
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