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Julianna Margulies Believes Getting Older Is a Privilege

Actress says, ‘People should just look at it as a gift rather than a distraction’


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AARP (Mary Ellen Matthews)

It’s been 30 years since Julianna Margulies, 58, rocketed to fame — and earned her first Emmy — playing nurse Carol Hathaway on NBC’s hit hospital drama ER. She earned two more Emmys playing Alicia Florrick on the popular CBS drama The Good Wife, and she’s gearing up for her first lead Broadway role as Delia Ephron in Left on Tenth — a romantic comedy based on Ephron’s bestseller — opening Sept. 26 at the James Earl Jones Theatre. Margulies tells AARP that she’s thrilled to be working in New York City: “I’m a New Yorker. Just the fact that I get to stay in my own home and not have to get on a plane and be away from your family is a little slice of heaven.” She shares how she’s conquering her Broadway jitters, why she looks back fondly on her ER days, and how life is better in her 50s.

This interview has been edited for length and clarity.

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How are you feeling about playing Delia Ephron?

I am one of those people who has always wanted to be in the Ephron orbit. So this opportunity feels both like a golden opportunity and an absolute mountain that I have to climb. I’m really excited to do it, and also absolutely nervous.

What are you doing to calm your nerves?

The first thing I do is I read the play or at least a section of the play and I record all of it — look, the first 24 pages of the play is just me talking to the audience. And then when I’m walking my dog, which does calm me, I listen to it. I work out six days a week. It’s my meditation. I get so much calm and peace from it. And then Delia and her late husband, Jerry [screenwriter Jerry Kass], took tap dancing lessons together. She talks about it in the play, and then does little steps while she’s talking. I am not a tap dancer, so I am now taking tap dancing lessons. And I’m working with my vocal coach because I have so much dialogue, and it’s such a roller coaster of emotions. I want to make sure my voice is ready and seasoned for eight shows a week. On top of everything else, I’m enjoying my family [husband, lawyer Keith Lieberthal, and son, Kieran, 16] as much as I can, and that always takes me completely out of it. I call them both my rocks. They’re calm, steady forces in my life that ground me beautifully. I stay calm with them, and doing little things like laundry, cooking.

spinner image Peter Gallagher with arms wrapped around Julianna Margulies from behind; To the left of them are the words Left on Tenth, Love eclipses everything
Margulies plays Delia Ephron in the Broadway show "Left on Tenth," a romantic comedy based on Ephron’s bestseller. She costars with Peter Gallagher.
Courtesy Mary Ellen Mathews

Some of your ER and Good Wife colleagues are also working on Broadway. Are you in touch with each other?

Well, here’s what’s amazing. I literally just bumped into Josh. [Good Wife costar] Josh Charles and I live a block away from each other, which happens to also be in the same neighborhood as Delia Ephron. The last time I was on Broadway was with [Good Wife costar] Carrie Preston [Festen, 2006]. She is just divine. And then also, here’s what's amazing, [ER costar] Anthony Edwards is one week into rehearsals for the play he’s doing [The Counter], and George Clooney will start rehearsals [for Good Night, and Good Luck] when [my play] opens. So we’ve all been texting each other, “Can you believe…?” Because September is the 30th anniversary of when ER first aired.

How do you look back on those days on ER?

I remember them with such fondness. It was a real family. And the fact that we’re all still friends and supporting one another — it is a testament to what George always said, “It’s the stars aligning in the right way. This comes around once in a lifetime. This is not normal.” So I had an early appreciation for the sort of halo that was around us when we did that show. The first few years of that show, it was such a juggernaut, and continued to be so, but we were all working so much, we didn’t — at least I didn’t — comprehend it, which I think was a good thing. I knew that people loved it, but I didn’t realize how big it was until after The Good Wife. My husband and I just took a trip to Ireland, and in these tiny little villages, everywhere I went, [people asked me about] ER.

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Because it’s streaming, people are still finding you.

Well, what’s remarkable about the streaming platform is that during the pandemic, 12- to 16-year-olds started watching ER. And so all these years later, when I sort of thought it faded into the horizon, I walk down the street and these young kids are like, “Are you Nurse Hathaway?” And I’m like, Oh my God, this is amazing.

spinner image Young Julianna Margulies as nurse Carol Hathaway with young George Clooney as doctor Doug Ross in a hospital in a still from E R
Margulies played nurse Carol Hathaway for six seasons on the popular NBC drama "ER." George Clooney, right, played Dr. Doug Ross on the show.
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How do you look at yourself 30 years later? What’s better?

Well, everything’s better except my eyesight. I’m so much calmer. The little things don’t get to me anymore. I am fully aware of how lucky I am and fully appreciative of my life. Here’s the best advice, and as kooky as my wonderful 89-year-old mother is, she always says to me, every time I see her, which is often: “Don’t waste a second thinking you’re old. If only I knew how young I was at 80, when I could drive and live in my own house.” And you just start to realize, it’s such a waste of time. … There’s a gift to getting older. People should just look at it as a gift rather than a distraction. It’s a privilege.

How are you feeling physically?

Physically, I think I’m in better shape than I was at 30 because I take it so much more seriously. I’m more gentle to my body. My stretching is longer than it used to be. I still hammer it out on the Peloton [machine] and all the other things I do, but I’m much kinder to myself. I’m much more aware of how important it is to surround yourself with people who fulfill you rather than people who deplete you. All those ridiculous relationship troubles you have in your 30s because you think you’re supposed to somehow suffer in a relationship until you realize, Oh no, actually I don’t.

Any new projects on the horizon?

We have a few irons in the fire with other really interesting female-led, character-driven television shows that I’m circling. Because now, especially with the streaming platforms, you can do 10 really great episodes and still have a life. And I can do it in New York. We were just trying to hash out this deal that I’m doing with a company, and they said, “Would you be open to Europe? Would you be open to Canada?” And I said, “In two years, I’ll be open to all of them. Not until my son graduates from school. I just can’t.” I get two [more] years, and then he’s on his own trip. I just want to enjoy it while I can, because I know it’s fleeting.

Carrie Preston reprised her Good Wife character, Elsbeth, in a new series. Would you want to bring Alicia Florrick back?

I wouldn’t want to bring Alicia back, although I’d be so curious to see where she is in her life right now. I often think, What would Alicia do? But I also am of the feeling: Let good things go when they’re ready to go, and create new good things.

 

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