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I Had 7 Strokes in a Year and Am Still Here to Write About It

The warning signs weren’t obvious. Now, I make sure others know stroke symptoms


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Joyce Sampson, who survived seven strokes, works out at the Prince George's Sports and Learning Complex on Sunday, August 18, 2024, in Landover, MD.
Cheriss May

I can still remember the day it happened. It was a sunny Tuesday morning in August 2009, and the weather beckoned me to sit on the deck with my laptop and write. I didn’t give a second thought to the fact that I woke up lightheaded and a little disoriented.

The sun was so bright that it hurt my eyes, further fueling that odd, unbalanced feeling. I wasn’t in any pain, but I couldn’t shake the sense that something bad was about to happen.

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Should I go to the hospital? Am I overreacting? Am I just groggy?

I went back inside and called for my son, but the words did not come easily. I could not come up with his name; I also couldn’t find the correct words for the car keys that I was frantically searching for. At the time, I had no idea that impaired speech, sudden confusion and sensitivity to light were red flags for stroke. But the body knows when something is not right.

After an internal debate, I drove myself to the hospital — not the smartest decision in hindsight — and waited in the parking lot for who knows how long. I felt silly. What was I going to tell them? That I was disoriented, confused and forgetful?

Diagnosis: Stroke

In the emergency room, the intake nurse wasted no time when I told her what happened. Someone rushed me in the back, stuck an IV in my arm and directed me to further testing. By the time the results came back, I was feeling like my old self — already planning what I was going to do with the rest of the beautiful day.

It couldn’t be that serious, I reasoned. Then they told me that I’d had a stroke — an acute linear infarct within the left posterior frontal lobe. The frontal lobes are the largest of the four major lobes of the cerebral cortex, which is the area of the brain responsible for thinking and memory. Three days later, I was discharged with instructions to take baby aspirin every day, consult with my primary doctor to manage my cholesterol and to sign up for a smoking cessation class.  

Back home, I carried on as if nothing had happened — except that I quit cigarettes cold turkey. I was fatigued more than usual and noticed some difficulty with processing information. During a live performance of a stage play, I couldn’t follow the dialogue — the actors’ words were garbled — and the stage lights bounced around my eyeballs like glittering rain.

It would pass, I told myself, having no idea that this was the harbinger of things to come.

The cause: A mystery

Five days later, I had a second stroke. Two days after that, a third, after which I lost my ability to understand or express speech, a condition known as global aphasia. The rest of the strokes — an additional four — happened in rapid succession, at least one week apart, each attack displaying different symptoms and varying degrees of intensity. For example, during my second stroke, the walls appeared to shake violently; my legs lost function, and I sank to the floor, holding on to the edge of the bed for support.

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By mid-October, I was in the hospital for longer than I’d ever been, unable to speak, write or comprehend what I was reading. Two fingers on my right hand would not move, and I even lost the power of imagination, which is caused by damage to the parietal and occipital lobes. 

For 10 days, doctors worked to find the reason why a relatively young woman, age 53 and physically active, was having multiple strokes, and more importantly, what could be done to stop them. Specialists confirmed that it was not genetic; that I didn’t inherit the predisposition to create blood clots, nor was the culprit cancer lurking undetected.

The reason remains a mystery today. 

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Joyce Sampson, who survived seven strokes, works out at the Prince George's Sports and Learning Complex on Sunday, August 18, 2024, in Landover, MD.
Cheriss May

Recovery: There’s no magic pill

Nearly 800,000 people in the U.S. have a stroke each year — that’s one every 40 seconds — and it takes a life every three minutes and 11 seconds. I know I was lucky. My body was spared the indignities of paralysis that many endure after a stroke, and I regained the ability to speak in a matter of weeks, though the injuries to my brain’s right hemisphere caused other cognitive-communication damage.

I could read a complex sentence but could not tell you what it meant, and two-step instructions were impossible to follow. If faced with a conversation in a crowded space, all I could decipher was noise. There was anterograde and retrograde amnesia, which resulted in the inability to retain new information and to remember people and events from the past. I had trouble organizing thoughts and ideas and difficulty identifying time and place. My balance was off, too, and sometimes, the surface underneath my feet felt soft and squishy, like walking in heels on a marshmallow floor.

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The effects of many of my deficits caught me by surprise. I got lost on a city bus in a part of town that I once knew by heart. I discovered that I could no longer count during a cash withdrawal at the bank. At a busy intersection, I walked into oncoming traffic even though I knew that the red pedestrian signal meant stop.

On separate occasions at home, I picked up the sharp end of a knife, splattered steaming coffee on an upside-down cup and poured a glass of ammonia rather than lemonade on the kitchen counter.

Recovery is a lifelong process; there’s no magic pill to make it all better, and I have had to work really hard at it. I joined stroke support groups to learn about resources and to get that much-needed emotional support. Through occupational and language therapy, I regained use of my right hand to write simple sentences.

As a former journalist, I was determined to write professionally again — something I was told I likely wouldn’t be able to do — so I started working with the George Washington University Speech and Hearing Center, where graduate student clinicians see patients for a modest fee.

Every semester for two years, I’d meet a new clinician and we’d work on memory, concentration and reading comprehension. We tackled functional skills (such as leaving an intelligible voicemail message), processing information in the midst of distractions and understanding social cues. 

I joined a stroke awareness group to educate the public about the signs and symptoms of stroke and its risk factors — I even organized a fitness fair for National Stroke Awareness Month (May) — and I prioritized regular exercise and healthy eating habits.

Importantly, I have started writing professionally again — and for national publications, a dream come true. It hasn’t been easy, as memory deficits, word retrieval and challenges organizing thoughts and ideas still come into play. So do the balance issues and marshmallow floors, but with help, I have learned to manage much of it.

I still have to separate household cleaners from beverages on my kitchen countertop, so I don’t accidentally drink a glass of Pine-Sol instead of lemonade. But I am grateful that I have the brain capacity to know the difference.

Stroke warning signs

I encourage you to learn the signs and symptoms of stroke, no matter what your age, because stroke does not discriminate.

To recognize the warning signs of a stroke, remember to think BE FAST: 

  • — Balance: Be watchful for a sudden loss of balance.
  • — Eyes: Look out for sudden loss of vision in one or both eyes. Are they experiencing double vision?
  • — Face: Ask the person to smile. Look for a droop on one or both sides of their face, which is a sign of muscle weakness or paralysis.
  • — Arm: A person having a stroke often has muscle weakness on one side. Ask them to raise their arms. If they have one-sided weakness (and didn’t have it before), one arm will stay higher while the other will sag and drop.
  • — Speech: Strokes often cause a person to lose their ability to speak. They might slur their speech or have trouble choosing the right words.
  • — Time: Time is critical, so don’t wait to get help! If possible, look at your watch or a clock and remember when symptoms start. Telling a health care provider when symptoms started can help the provider know what treatment options are best for you.

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