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True love never gets old. On 'The Golden Bachelor,' widowed Indiana retiree Gerry Turner, 72, finally found his soulmate — a journey that began in September with 22 contestants between the ages of 60 and 75 and ended with a proposal to Theresa. The program is a reminder that older people aren’t immune to the charms of Cupid’s arrow. These five real-life couples all found their heart’s match well into midlife. Here’s how they dove headfirst into love’s embrace and gathered the roses of affection.
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Met at 17, split at 22, married at 50
Nicole Lewis, 56, and Adam Lewis, 58
Location: Pittsburgh
Status: Married since May 2022
First Blushes. As a freshman at the University of Pittsburgh in 1989, Nicole met her future hubby at an intersection on campus, where Adam, also a Pitt undergrad, cautioned her not to stand in the bus lane. “It was my desperate, corny way to break the ice,” he says. That sparked a relationship that lasted six years, until Nicole broke things off. “I had this thing back then about a dream man with the suit and the house — the good-on-paper guy, not the struggling musician,” she says. They went their separate ways in 1995. Nicole married and divorced twice, Adam got engaged, and they both had children. After two decades apart, Nicole tracked down her old boo, whom she still calls “bus lane.”
The Secret Sauce. “I did a lot of growing up,” says Adam, who became a popular Pittsburgh radio personality in the intervening years. “It wasn’t just gainful employment. It was learning to take care of myself universally so I could take care of someone else.” Adds Nicole, a human resources executive for a financial services company, “The fact that we took a detour, and then got a second chance — it somehow doubled our respect and love and gratitude for each other.”
Learning to Love … After being a bachelor for a long time, Adam needed to adjust to sharing a roof with someone — “things like Nicole needing complete darkness and silence to sleep, when I’ve always slept with the TV on,” he says. Nicole says it took time navigating Adam’s night owl tendencies and “the fact that music is typically playing in the house while he does his radio show multiple times a week.”
Better With Age. Adam proposed live on the air in 2021, around the time they both turned 50. “Getting back together with someone at an older age after so much time, you feel like you’re coming home,” Nicole says. “You know each other’s likes and dislikes, you’ve seen how they’ve matured, you know you can manage heavy places together.” Adds Adam, “You understand each other from the roots up, and those roots go deep.”
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Passionate together (by living apart)
Joan Price and Mac Marshall, both 80
Location: She lives in Sebastopol, California; he lives in Santa Rosa, California
Status: LAT (see below)
First Blushes. After Joan, a writer, lost her beloved second husband to cancer in 2008, she grieved profoundly. In May 2017, OK Cupid matched her with Mac, a widowed, retired anthropology professor. They were both 73. Joan says, “We connected on many levels — intellectually, emotionally, sexually — and with the important shared bond of having lost our great loves.” Now she and Mac are a committed couple but choose to live in separate homes, a.k.a. “LAT — living apart together,” a relationship style chosen by many older people. “Our relationship is joyful, communicative, and sexy,” she tells me. “So many people our age think their chance at love is over, especially if they’ve lost their spouse or partner. It’s never too late.”
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