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When economist Debra Whitman, the chief public policy officer for AARP and a globally recognized expert on aging, was approaching her 50th birthday, she began to wonder what was in store for her own second fifty. Suddenly, the questions she’d been studying for years became personal.
In her book, The Second Fifty: Answers to the 7 Big Questions of Midlife and Beyond, Whitman explores some of the most pressing concerns for Americans today: How long will I live? Will I be healthy? Will I lose my memory? How long will I work? Will I have enough money? Where should I live? And how will I die? She draws on the stories of Americans across the country and the expertise of demographers, neuroscientists, and geriatricians to offer readers a compelling, deeply informed, and empathetic guide to aging well in a changing America. In this adaptation, she addresses how to prepare financially for later years.
Will I have enough money?
My grandfather did not have an easy retirement. Life expectancy, when he was born in 1897, was around 47. For most of his life, he worked as a logger in Washington state — an incredibly dangerous job, especially in those days. He had a small farm with chickens, cows, and a garden that helped to keep his five kids fed. He had no pension, little savings, and only a modest check from Social Security, so he kept working almost until he died at 74. My grandmother was left with little to live on, but at least she had the family farm.
My father’s expectations of aging were substantially different. By the 1950s, people assumed they could live into their 70s, and they looked forward to “retirement” — then a new concept — with a base income to rely on. As my father had served in the military and then spent most of his career working for the federal government, he had a lifelong pension, a retiree health care plan, and a 401(k). When he retired in 1994, his mortgage was paid off, and he had no other debt. My parents, now in their 80s, are very fortunate; their pensions, Social Security, and retirement nest egg cover their modest expenses and allow them to travel. Like everyone, they worry about their health and independence, but they don’t have to worry when it comes to money.
As I enter my own second fifty, I feel far less sanguine about my family’s future than my parents did about theirs. For one thing, the Social Security system is expected to start running short of funding in 2034, the year I turn 64. Based on my years of experience on Capitol Hill, I am confident that policymakers will make the changes necessary to avert a crisis before that deadline — the political consequences of doing nothing are just too severe. But not knowing what steps they will take to keep Social Security solvent — or how those will impact our benefits — makes it hard to know if my husband and I are saving enough, and if we will have enough income in retirement.
I also worry for my kids’ generation. My daughter and son are now in their late teens and early 20s. Given the current trends in lifespan and employment patterns, it’s likely one or both of them will live beyond their 100th birthday, and they may never have a job that offers retirement benefits. They could be contract workers, self-employed, or members of the gig economy. Even if they do work for a large organization, they likely won’t be able to count on the kinds of pensions or retiree health care plans their parents and grandparents enjoyed.
Ideally, my kids won’t have to care for my husband and me. Ideally, they won’t get sick themselves. Ideally, they’ll figure out how to take care of themselves financially. But we live in a world where things very often aren’t ideal.
What we need to support our longer lives, in my view, is a change to our systems, because much of what enables financial security in retirement — or our ability to one day retire at all — is beyond our individual control, determined by the decisions and policies of our employers and political representatives. It hinges on whether the companies we work for offer health insurance or retirement benefits, contribute to our retirement savings, and pay a living wage that allows us to save. It also depends on the solvency and adequacy of our main retirement program, Social Security, which hasn’t been substantially updated since the 1980s. America’s retirement-support system needs dramatic improvements to keep pace with our longer lives.
Many of us avoid thinking about retirement planning altogether. Nearly half of workers say they haven’t tried to calculate how much money they’ll need during retirement. But we should all think about it. Understanding our options and planning for the future is always better than putting our heads in the sand, and it can bring us some peace of mind.
The price of living longer
Longer life is full of economic trade-offs. It means we will have more years of life to finance, with or without paychecks. We might have fewer expenses such as school tuitions or work clothes, but we’ll still have plenty of household bills, and we are likely to face a host of additional health and long-term care expenses, which makes extending our health spans that much more important.
Younger people often assume that Medicare will pay for all their health costs once they hit 65. But we still have to pay insurance premiums, co-pays for doctor or hospital visits, and prescriptions. We may need many things, such as a visit to the dentist or new glasses, that Medicare won’t pay for at all.
By one estimate, a married couple will need to have saved at least $212,000 by age 65 to have an even chance of being able to pay for health care alone for the rest of their lives. To have a 90 percent chance of covering their costs, they would need to have put aside nearly $320,000. These huge figures don’t even take into account the costs of long-term care and other living expenses.
Even those who have tried to save can find themselves struggling if they are hit with emergencies. A few years ago, a friend asked if I would talk with his father, Lawrence, about a reverse mortgage he was considering. I didn’t know how much I could help but said I was happy to try. I gave Lawrence a call, and he began by telling me about his life. Lawrence and his wife raised eight children in rural Utah and have 42 grandchildren whom they adore. Now 76, Lawrence was a master craftsman; he supported his family making high-quality custom cabinets in a workshop in his home. He had saved money and invested as wisely as he could. But medical bills had taken a big chunk of the family’s savings when one child was born prematurely and his wife was diagnosed with cancer. Without savings to fall back on, Lawrence needed to keep working even when the arthritis in his hands made it painful. He and his wife depended on their Social Security payments and on help from family to make ends meet. Still, their debt kept climbing. They tapped the equity built up in the house to pay some bills and even considered selling their home. But the converted schoolhouse was the same building where they had met in seventh grade and later raised a family. How could they possibly let it go? But how could they make it through their second fifty if they didn’t?
I shared the pros — and many cons — of reverse mortgages. Lawrence did end up getting one. He was able to keep the family home and access additional equity to draw on for emergencies. He loves that his big family can come together and that there is space for all the grandkids to sleep over. “I’ve always wanted a place the kids felt they could come home to,” he told me.
Lawrence had worked just as hard as my father, maybe harder, given the physical nature of his job, yet in retirement he found himself in a very different financial position. It wasn’t because he’d made bad choices; it was largely because he had been self-employed for most of his life and didn’t have the same protections and generous health and retirement benefits my father has enjoyed.
Lawrence isn’t alone in his struggle to get by. Many Americans are only a health crisis away from losing their homes or sinking into poverty.
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