But there were lean times in between. After a couple of legendary 1960s films (Reflections in a Golden Eye, Medium Cool), his career tanked shortly after he turned 30 in 1971. “Pretty soon you’re working bad jobs for scale,” recalls Forster. “But I had four kids, so it was, ‘Let’s keep going, Bob!’ So that happened for 27 years. Then I was sitting in a coffee shop across the street from where I’m sitting this minute, every morning for 27 years. In walks Quentin Tarantino. I’d auditioned for Reservoir Dogs. I said, ‘What are you doin’?’ He said, ‘I’m adapting Elmore Leonard’s Rum Punch, why don’t you read it?'” Retitled Jackie Brown, it reignited Forster’s career. “You put in enough years and every once in a while something terrific comes along,” says Forster. “You’ve got to keep sluggin’ until that happens.”
Hilary Swank (left) plays Bridget, the daughter of Alzheimer's-stricken Ruth (Blythe Danner), in "What They Had."
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More good things came along — he’s had 46 major roles since turning 70 — but the best by far was What They Had. “My agent said, ‘I have a gem for you.’ The subject matter aside, it is a thrill for an actor to get a role as nice as this.” But the subject matter of dementia and its effect on a marriage and a family is important to him too. “Life is short, 50, 75 seasons, a hundred maybe,” he says. “Alzheimer’s cuts short the opportunities for love and all the good things of life. But there are smart people working on it, like polio when I was a kid. Polio was a scary thing, but Salk came along and bam! It was over with in a second. I’m hoping that such a thing will happen with Alzheimer’s. I check myself every day. Can I still remember? Can I still learn lines? You ask yourself, ‘Am I losing it or am I still capable?’ It’s one of those things you hope doesn’t hit you. We’re hoping that something will come along and soon. My ex-mother-in-law had it, and it’s certainly sad. But even in her worst, just before the end, she was capable of joy and love.”
Forster’s new life draws on his connection to classic Hollywood, which gives him the aura that made David Lynch cast him in Mulholland Drive and Twin Peaks. “I was the last luxury tenant of the Sunset Plaza apartments,” he recalls. “I lived just above where — oh, the guy who killed himself in a Porsche, the big guy who died young after Giant — James Dean, lived, and I was in Carole Lombard’s old apartment. Everybody lived there, Sinatra lived in the penthouse.
The family comes together in "What They Had," (from left) Michael Shannon as Nick, Taissa Farmiga as Emma, Hilary Swank as Bridget, Blythe Danner as Rush and Robert Forster as Burt.
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Forster got conflicting advice from older actors. “Montgomery Clift said you’ve got to be very careful about what you choose, and you don’t pick right away. Gary Cooper said, ‘Never pass up a job.’ So it doesn’t matter what your theory is — they had approximately the same number of hits. Hits are a very rare thing. And so is getting a job as good as What They Had.” Few actors this year got a scene as sensitive, intelligent and tender as the one where Forster’s character, who’s fighting to remain his wife’s caregiver and prevent their kids (Hilary Swank and Michael Shannon) from sending her to an institution, paints Danner’s toenails, joking that he hopes his poker buddies never find out about this utterly non-macho moment. “We all hope that there is someone who will protect us,” says Forster.
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