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Nicola Griffin is a silver-haired single mother of 21-year-old twin daughters.
Nicola Griffin is 56 years old and wears size 16 clothes.
Nicola Griffin is my new heroine.
Why?
Because Griffin is also a swimsuit model, heating up Sports Illustrated's 2016 swimsuit issue in a gold bikini for the #SwimSexy ad campaign by New Jersey-based Swimsuits for All. As the magazine hits newsstands and mailboxes, I asked Griffin to share her thoughts about age, attitude and self-image. She didn't hold back.
Q: Fortune obviously favored you with good genes, great bone structure and that statuesque 5-foot-10 frame, but let's face it: You're a 56-year-old, size-16 bikini model at a time when many age 50+ women quail at wearing a sleeveless dress. What gave you the guts to do this?
A: I honestly can't say! I'd never even modeled until three years ago, so while this new career is a fantastic — and unexpected — gift, it hasn't changed my attitude about my looks one bit. I've got a round tummy from giving birth to 7-pound twins. I've got cesarean scars, cellulite and a big bosom, and I'm certainly not a size zero. But who better to challenge the perfectionism that makes mature women feel flawed and invisible as they age?
Q: So I could rock a bikini?
A: Why not? You needn't be 18 and skinny to wear one. There's no need to spend three months — or any time at all, really — preparing to wear one. I want women of all shapes and sizes to accept their bodies as they are. We have to stop letting fear control what we wear and how we look.
Q: Where does your brand of progressive thinking come from?
A: When I was a kid, my mother never discussed weight or diet — we just ate what was put on the table. Nowadays, I'm very happy with my weight. I've never had a scale in the house.
Q: Has your outlook influenced your daughters?
A: I like to think they follow my example. And in fact, there's no discussion about weight when we get together. We all eat healthy, feel great about our looks and are busy getting on with life. I do walk a lot and stay active, and I post a lot on Instagram to encourage other women along those lines.
Q: I'm not sure I've ever met a model who doesn't diet. What do you eat on a typical day?