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Shelley Hughes, 55, Visalia, California
One step at a time — that became Shelley Hughes's mantra when she decided to get fit. At the time, she was a critical care nurse in Florida — and 100 pounds overweight. “I woke up on a January morning and realized that even opening my eyes was hard because my face was so full. I was 5-foot-1 and 233 pounds. That's when I said to my husband, who was about 80 pounds overweight, ‘We've got to do something. Today is the day we start.'” Hughes began by joining Weight Watchers and tweaking her diet, but within six months, she also began a new exercise regimen. Today, she weighs about 133 pounds (from a size 22 to a size 2/4) and is an avid open-water swimmer who has done a 12.5-mile swim around Key West and a swim from New York City's Statue of Liberty to Freedom Tower.
How she got out of shape
"I became a mom, and then I was in nursing school. Life just took over and I never even thought about exercise. I met my friends at the buffet, not at the track. I'd been a swimmer in my teens, but I basically didn't exercise from age 16 to age 46. It was 30 years of nothing. After working 12-hour shifts, taking care of other people, I didn't feel like cooking, so I'd swing through the drive-through."
When she started to get fit
"I started by making one change at a time — and these changes were nonnegotiable. When I coach people now, I tell them, ‘You know when you start out brushing your teeth as a little kid? At first, you have to be talked into it, but eventually you just get up and do it.’ I tried to make sure that all of my lifestyle changes were things I could commit to 75 to 85 percent of the time. And once one lifestyle change was a habit, I'd move on to another."
Exercising once again
"About six months after I started losing weight, I signed up for a walking challenge. I had about eight weeks to work up to walking a 5K, and if I did the walk, I received a charm. It was teeny but I have to tell you — it meant something. And once I started walking, I thought, ‘What if I could run from here to the next mailbox?’ and then I joined a beginners running group."
Ramping it up
"I started to surround myself with people going in the same direction as me. They would finish a 5K in 20 or 25 minutes, and I'd come in at 45 minutes, but they would all wait for me and cheer me on. And when they did really long runs — I was probably down to about 200 pounds at that point — I would bring my bicycle and ride alongside. Then the 5Ks turned into 10Ks, and ultimately into half-marathons."
Finding her sport
"Our group branched out from running to riding our bikes and swimming. I had been a strong swimmer as a teenager, so suddenly the slow girl in the back of running races was doing great as a swimmer. I was down probably 70 pounds, but I had hit a plateau and could not get the numbers on the scale to move, so my daughter came up with this brilliant idea that as a family we would all do a marathon. I did it, and was one of the last ones to finish, but I did finish! And that's when I started to really believe I could do these crazy things. So on April 14, 2015, I did my first half-Ironman, which was a 1.2-mile swim, 56 miles on the bike, and a half-marathon [13.1 miles]."
Where she is today
"I had an accident on my bike shortly after the half-Ironman that didn't leave a scratch on me but caused a brain bleed. It meant that I had to learn how to walk and to talk all over again, and I lost my nursing profession that day because I could no longer handle the mental challenges of the job. But after the accident, I decided to become a coach at Weight Watchers and dedicate myself to helping others believe in themselves. It's like a different kind of nursing. We now live in California. I exercise at least five to six days a week, and this year I plan to swim the 10 miles across Lake Tahoe. My husband will kayak beside me, with my little service dog in the kayak. The swimming is like running — you find friends who support you, who say, ‘You're one of us now.'"
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