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While our millennials probably post details of their love life on Instagram and Snapchat, chances are parents might not hear about it. I know a family in which two adult children informally instituted the "three-month rule": Don't tell mom about a new relationship until after that time because she asks too many questions. After three months, a relationship has real long-term potential.
Regardless of when millennials decide to reveal their romances to parents, you can trust and believe that the rules of dating have changed over the last decade. As with every aspect of their lives, millennials go online to find potential partners, whether for one night or for life. A new Pew survey found that almost one-third of young people have used an online dating app. Sometimes adult kids are reluctant to tell their parents that they met a significant other online. But as one argument goes, how is that any better or worse than meeting in a bar?
However, the day eventually dawns when you'll meet the boyfriend or girlfriend or whatever they call the romantic interest. And when it does, take your new relationship slowly, advises psychologist Deanna Brann, author of Reluctantly Related: Secrets to Getting Along With Your Mother-in-Law or Daughter-in-Law.
"Don't jump in with two feet, especially because you don't know if the relationship is going to work out," she says. Even adult children often feel the need to please parents, and if they are overly enthusiastic about the new friend, the child may sometimes stay in a relationship that's not working so as not to disappoint them.
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