Women Veterans Talk About Their Military Experiences

Today, Quijada works as a wellness consultant and yoga instructor in Tampa, Florida.

"In the beginning, I was taught right to be a tough paratrooper to jump in and take no prisoners, so to speak,” she said. “And in the end, I was taught and kind of turned around to say, ‘Let's bend a little; let's be resilient.’ “

Reflecting on her time in the military, Quijada said: “It's important to recognize that for most of us, women who were told ‘No, keep out,’ we weren't interested going in just to be the girl. We wanted the opportunity for women who could do it. I didn't want the standards to change, because that jeopardizes everybody."

She added, “I look back, and I realized that in the beginning, there was that pioneering sense, although I wouldn't have said it then. The Women's Army Corps, they were the pioneers. They were the ones that toughed it out before they were even allowed in the men's army."

Julia Castellano-Hoyt, 80, Specialist 4th Class (Retired)

Julia Castellano-Hoyt joined the Women's Army Corps (WAC), then an all-female branch of the Army, the day after her high school graduation, in 1959.

"It was special for us to be sworn in because there were at least seven of us, all women. And so that was a big thing — they had it on the news and everywhere else,” she said.

Castellano-Hoyt was assigned to supply and ordnance in Fort Leonard Wood, Missouri, a detachment of 250 women and 20,000 men. Much of her work with the ordnance locator file required her to know each part and location of every item in a listed ordnance.

"It was quite an interesting two years,” she said. “I would have stayed in longer except at that date and time, if you got married, you had to get out. The servicemen did not have to get out if they got married. I learned a lot — the first time I'd ever been away from home. I had grown up in a very sheltered situation.”

Castellano-Hoyt became close friends with several of the other women she served with and stayed in contact with them over the years. One would later become her son's godmother.

"At that time, they were very strict,” she noted. “They separated us from the guys. We could work side by side with them in offices and hospitals because the women then were nursing assistants. Our barracks were in one area, and we were separated. There were guards around our barracks every night. If a man had to come into our barracks, somebody had to be on the alert and yell ‘Man on the floor,’ and we all scattered.” The WAC was disbanded in 1978, when women were integrated into the Army alongside men.

Castellano-Hoyt left the military in 1961 with the rank of Specialist 4th Class. She continued her lifetime of public service, working for the city of San Antonio, Texas, where she still lives. Her last position was chief of staff to Mayor Bill Thornton.

"I have five brothers, all of whom have served in the military,” she said. “And my son is military retired. My godson, who's my nephew, is a captain right now and is a helicopter pilot. I didn't start the tradition; my uncle served in World War II and then Korea. But we do have a family history of over more than 100 years of total military service to this country, and we are all Hispanic.”

Today she is a charter member of the Women in Military Service for America Memorial, located in Arlington, Virginia.

Shirley Gerrior, 71, Colonel (Retired)

In the early 1980s, Shirley Gerrior joined the Army Reserves as a dietitian, serving in general hospitals, field hospitals and medical groups. For 23 years she balanced her day job as a clinical dietitian with the Reserves requirement of serving one weekend a month and two weeks a year of active duty. In 2003, though, she was called to Fort Campbell, Kentucky, for active duty in support of Operation Noble Eagle, which aided federal, state and local agencies, in response to the September 11, 2001, terrorist attacks. Gerrior backfilled for soldiers who were sent abroad and assisted in training to support the medical needs of the 101st Airborne Division.

Courtesy Shirley Gerrior

"I had a day's notice to get ready,” she said. “You have to be ready to heed the call, and one day wasn't very much. You always have this bag packed — your duffel bag is ready; you have all your gear."

During the four months she was there, she made friendships that continue to this day.

"You get to know people, and they're very supportive to you as a female,” Gerrior said from her home in Wilmington, North Carolina. “We would be out in tents, and we'd have to go to the bathroom and latrines and whatever, so you're exposed to a lot of different types of things, and women were there to support.”

She thinks women's nurturing instinct is part of the reason why most medical units had more women than men. “[Women are] focused on health and well-being, and so there is that climate. I found that in that type of environment that's supportive.”

Gerrior acknowledged that garnering respect for her service hasn't always been easy. “If you're with a male spouse, when someone says they're in the military, they'll always look to the male and not the female. It's in some cases, the female is almost invisible. Respect women for their service; recognize their service."

Editor's note: This story has been updated with new information.