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4 Assets Your Kids May Not Want to Inherit

Unlike Rupert Murdoch's children, yours might not fight over what you're leaving behind

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Leaving your children an inheritance seems like a blessing, but it can also be a curse. Just ask Rupert Murdoch, 93, who's feuding with his kids over who will gain control of his media empire after he dies.

But not all families are in the same position as the Murdochs. While cold-hard cash is almost always welcome, surprisingly there are some seemingly valuable assets that your offspring may not be interested in inheriting.

This is true, in particular, if the items you’re handing down require a lot of effort to take possession of or extract value from, not to mention a lot of money to maintain or space to store.  Sure, your kids may appreciate the thought, but if an asset being inherited is too hard to hold on to or easily sell, it could cause more hassle and expense that it's worth.

Jean-Luc Bourdon, founder and wealth adviser at Lucent Wealth Planning, once had a client who inherited an exotic car but didn’t know what to sell it for or whom to turn to for help. Instead of unlocking the value, the vehicle gathered dust in the garage. “When it’s an asset people don’t understand, it’s very difficult,” he says. The same goes for expensive furniture and collectibles that take up space but are hard to get rid of.

“The most common assets [kids don’t want] have some type of obligation attached to them to maintain value,” says Joseph McNair, a certified financial planner at WA Asset Management. “The closer to cash the assets are, the less cumbersome they are.”

Most heirs aren’t going to turn down money, but there are a handful of possessions they may not want that may surprise you, including these four.

1. Property

Vacation homes, farmland and other real estate can be a great asset to leave your children, as they can appreciate in value. But they can also cause untold headaches and hassles if there’s a lot of maintenance and expenses involved. Strife is another issue if the property is being split among family members. “I’ve seen a lot of siblings get along well before their parents pass, and then the fighting starts,” says Molly Ward, a financial adviser at Equitable Advisors. “One family had a gorgeous property, but never in a million years would the kids want it.” You also have to pay taxes, utilities and upkeep, and if you can’t sell the place, it could become a drain on your finances and time.​

2. A family business

Cue the "Succession" reruns. You’ve spent decades building your business, so it’s only natural to want to pass it down to your children. That’s great if they want it. If not, your legacy is at risk. “The company can be worth millions and lose millions in a matter of months if proper planning hasn’t been done,” Ward warns. So while you are still running the operation, you should decide whom you would like to eventually replace you. If your children aren’t interested, you’ll have the time to look for a successor or plan for a sale. ​

3. Time-shares

Time-shares seem like a dream come true: You have a vacation spot and don’t have to spend a fortune. Some even offer you choice in where you vacation. But often time-shares can be a drain on your sanity and your bank account. There’s an annual maintenance fee, utilities and taxes, which can quickly add up. And getting out of a time-share can be difficult and time-consuming.

4. Storage unit 

Unless there’s cash or jewelry stashed in it, a storage unit full of old stuff can be a burden. Your loved one is left to go through and clean out the space and figure out what to do with all your belongings or take on the added expense of maintaining the unit.

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