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Bill Clinton, 78, On Being a Grandparent: 'I’ve Never Been So Happy to Be Bossed Around'

The former president's new memoir, 'Citizen,' reflects on life after the White House


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It’s been nearly 24 years since President Bill Clinton left the Oval Office at age 54, and those years haven’t exactly been devoted to rest and relaxation. In his new memoir, Citizen: My Life After the White House (Nov. 19), Clinton revisits his last few decades, including helming the Clinton Foundation, and, improbably, writing a thriller with James Patterson (Clinton’s a huge thriller fan).

We asked him about the memoir, being a grandparent, how he relaxes and stays fit, and more.

You write that for political leaders and other famous people, their “public persona never captures the whole person.” What would people be surprised to know about you?

I think people would be surprised to learn that most — not all, but most — politicians are real, three-dimensional people trying their level best to make the right decisions and do a good job representing the people they serve. We all have hopes and fears, good days and bad days like anybody else.  We lose something when we turn each other into two-dimensional cartoons. It’s good politics in the short term to demonize people and ignore their fundamental humanity, but it’s a lousy way to run a country.

As for something more specific that people might not know about me: I am hopelessly addicted to the New York Times “Spelling Bee” game. I work on it every morning, and I don’t quite feel like my day’s complete until I reach “Queen Bee.” It keeps me sharp.  Plus, along with watching Jeopardy!, it’s one of the many things Hillary and I routinely do together!

What is your relationship with your grandkids like?

I see them as often as I can, with phone and FaceTime calls in between. When we’re together, we read, work on puzzles, talk about their interests, and what they’ve been doing in and out of school. But mostly, I do what I’m told! I’m glad to do whatever they want to do, and I’ve never been so happy to be bossed around!

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Chelsea Clinton with her newborn baby Aidan, husband Marc Mezvinsky, and parents Bill and Hillary Clinton in 2016.
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Are you optimistic about your grandchildren’s (and America’s) future?   

I’m optimistic about my grandchildren’s future because they have two wonderful, caring parents [Chelsea Clinton, 44, and Marc Mezvinsky, 46] who are raising them to be brave and kind, with a responsibility to build a better world where all children, including those growing up in less privileged circumstances, have the same chances to thrive.

In the near term, though, I’m worried about the country they’ll be living in and whether they’ll have the rights, freedoms and opportunities every child deserves. It’s up to all of us to do whatever we can to safeguard our democracy, for all our kids’ and grandkids’ sake.

What is some wisdom you’ve gained with age — something you wish you’d known 30 or 40 years ago?

For much of my life, I was always the youngest person doing whatever it was I was doing — I was the youngest governor in America, the second-youngest president ever elected. Suddenly, I’m the oldest person in the room. What it’s taught me is that it doesn’t take long to live a life, and the fuller it is, the faster it goes. We should all make the most of it — to follow your heart as well as your head, do what makes you happy and cherish the good times.

Are you still following a plant-based, dairy-free diet, and what else do you do to stay healthy?

I do still follow a largely plant-based diet, though my doctor recommended I add fish and protein supplement to help maintain energy and strength. Other than that, I regularly work out with a trainer and take lots of walks with Hillary.

What do you do to relax/unwind?

Besides my daily battle with “Spelling Bee,” as I mentioned earlier, I love to read all kinds of books. I try to learn something new every day. I also enjoy watching sports and movies, and occasionally Hillary and I will get hooked and binge a TV show. I love Astrid. Exercise is a great form of stress relief, so I work out regularly and go for plenty of walks. And I try to keep up with my friends from every phase of my long life.

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Then-President Bill Clinton stretching outside the White House after a jog.
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Have you read any great books lately?

Steve Brusatte’s The Rise and Reign of the Mammals. And Ernest Becker’s The Denial of Death, which I first read on my honeymoon and try to re-read every 10 years or so. I also read the final installments of Jacqueline Winspear’s Maisie Dobbs books and Susan Elia MacNeal’s series on Maggie Hope, both great historical detective works.

Thanksgiving is coming up. What are you most grateful for right now?

I’m grateful for Hillary, Chelsea, Marc and my three wonderful grandchildren. I’m grateful for my health and the health of my loved ones, including my brother and nephew. I’m grateful for the people who keep the work of our foundation going, which is more important than ever. I’m grateful for the friends I have, for the honor of saying goodbye to those I’ve lost, and the memories I have of our time together. And I’m grateful (and hopeful) that after several years of work, people will finally be reading my new book!

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Then-presidential nominee Hillary Clinton with former President Barack Obama, former President Bill Clinton and daughter Chelsea during an election eve rally in 2016.
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