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In a survey aptly entitled “Wisdom of Experience,” the folks at the Capital Group, a financial institution, polled more than 1,200 Americans to get a sense of what they most did not want to talk about. At the top of the list, for both men and women, were four money-related issues: income, savings, debt and inheritances. Among the things we’d rather discuss? Marital problems, religious beliefs, drug addiction and, yes, politics.
No wonder our families have so much trouble managing our financial lives after we pass away. Not only are many of us not taking the steps necessary while we’re able, but we’re also not talking about what we’re doing with the people we’re counting on to tidy up the messes we’ve left behind.
Here’s the thing. It’s neither that difficult nor that expensive.
One reason that many people give for not creating an estate plan is the presumed cost. Barring a complicated family or business situation, you can often get the basic documents you need from an attorney for less than $1,000. And you can get them much less expensively by DIYing them with an online service like LegalZoom (yes, they hold up in court).
Bottom line: You can and should make it easier for your loved ones by following the following five steps.
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1. Put the basic documents in place
A standard estate plan includes a will, a durable power of attorney for finances (more on this in a moment), a health care proxy (also called a medical directive or durable power of attorney for health care), and a living will. The will, or last will and testament, is a legal document that lays out how you want your assets and property divided when you die. A will can also name guardians for minor children and someone to care for your pets.
A durable power of attorney for finances gives another person the right to make financial, business and real estate decisions when you can’t, like paying bills and trading stocks. Durable means that power is in force at all times as compared to a power of attorney which goes into effect only if you become incapacitated.
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