AARP Hearing Center
Over the past two weeks millions of Americans have protested in cities across the country to demand social justice and racial equality. And older Americans have been adding their voices and perspectives to those demonstrations.
For some, marching in the street is nothing new — they have attended rallies and protests for decades to bring awareness or demand change on important social issues. For others, the death of George Floyd in police custody has spurred them to action for the first time.
Either way, to hear them tell it, these new protests feel different. Here are some of their stories.
Rhonda Mathies, 69, Louisville, Kentucky, retired social worker
Louisville Metro Police, Kentucky State Police and the National Guard were downtown at Sixth and Jefferson streets on May 30. They were dressed in riot gear and on horses, on foot and on the rooftops. The kids were in the middle of the street chanting “Hands up,” “I can’t breathe,” and “No justice, no peace.” Some were lying down in the street. I went over to the side to pray. I went down on my knees. A black girl, maybe in her 30s, younger than my two daughters, said, “Ma’am, get up. The police are ready to move.” I said I wasn’t getting up because I was praying, and she said, “You’ll get locked up,” and I said, “I don’t care.” But she eased me up. When I opened my eyes the police were coming straight at us. A state trooper on foot took his baton and pushed her, and when he did that, I had a flashback to Alabama in the 1960s, and I broke down and started crying.
I’ve been protesting a long time. I started in the school system seeing how black kids were being treated academically and emotionally. It was always a constant struggle. I’m tired. I’m tired for my people. I keep saying it’s up to the next generation, but knowing what my ancestors have been through, my inner being propels me back out to the streets.
In some ways, these are the best of times because we have a diversity of consciousness, but it can’t be just a moment; it’s a movement. The police are not going to magically do the right thing. Racism is still alive. It’s institutionalized.
Cherry Steinwender, 78, Houston, executive director, Center for the Healing of Racism
I was at the protest [June 2] with 60,000 people in front of City Hall in Houston [George Floyd’s hometown]. It was exhilarating to see so many people of so many ethnicities. It made me so proud; we were looking like what the whole city looks like.
The other exhilarating thing for me was to see all of the signs of protest that people carried. I had one with our organization’s logo and the words “Internalize Oneness.” That’s a powerful statement because people have [the] oneness [of humanity] in their heads, but they haven’t moved it to a place where it really makes a difference. They haven’t internalized it.
For instance, I will never say “people of different races” because I truly believe that’s part of the problem. You can’t have it both ways. You can’t say that we all are the same human family with at least 99.9 [percent] DNA in common, and then at the same time turn around and look at me as if I’m a different race than you. To me that doesn’t equate. My husband is white, blond with blue eyes. He’s Austrian. And he and I will never, ever refer to each other as an interracial couple.
We were a very diverse group of friends that started this organization, Center for the Healing of Racism, back in 1989. We were third-generation Japanese American, European American, African American, Latino. [The group’s founding] was in response to the silence about racism. You know, whenever you do mention it, it’s “Pass the sugar please.” You don’t talk about it.
So that joy I was feeling at the protest seeing all those different people — it made me feel that now something’s going to change. There’s something different about this.
Nick Sheridan, 71, Baltimore, humanist celebrant
I went to a protest that was huge, several thousand people. There were a lot of homemade signs, which is really good to me because it means people aren’t just following a trope. They’re thinking and feeling and putting up signs that say what they feel.
And people here keep on creating different forms of protest. I belong to an organization that has a lot of older members who are nervous about going on a march because of coronavirus, so they’re organizing a car caravan with signs that they’ll hold out of the window. People are being really creative. They’re starting to realize that we can’t progress as a country unless we start to deal with this.
I went on a ride-along with the Baltimore police six or seven years ago. They invited community leaders and I was leading a community group, and there was no violence on that ride-along, no obvious violence, but the way they dealt with black people and white people — there was just such a horrible contrast. It was disrespectful.
I wrote about it and when it was published in the Baltimore Sun, the police press officer called me and asked me the name of the officer. I said, “I’m not gonna give you the name of the officer because you punishing that one officer gives the illusion that one officer is rogue, and all that officer was doing was following the culture of the department.”
More on politics-society
A Message From Our CEO: Fighting for Social Justice
Let’s create an America as good as its promise7 Leaders Who Carry on Martin Luther King Jr.'s Legacy
These modern trailblazers continue to work on civil rights issues
John Lewis, Last of Big Six Civil Rights Leaders, Is in a Battle for His Life
Georgia congressman received stage 4 pancreatic cancer diagnosis in December